Hey everybody!
In fact, I came to you to share experiences concerning different countries you've lived in and if actually you are confused about where to choose to settle down! I am torched between the North and the South if I may describe it this way! I am born in France and lived there for almost half of my life and I lived in an arab country the other half! I left it cuz it was becoming unbearable there (not that I hate the country) but the mentality there is hard to cope with (too much intrusion in one's life, contradictions between traditions and religion, very frequent snobbish attitude, etc...).
I came back to France 2 years ago and I am so dissapointed. Most people are allergic to cultural differences and don't try to get out of their french cocoon! French are so chauvinist and negatively perceive any arab and this doesn't help me in term of professional career, I am constantly stereotyped as the typical arab coming from the 93 ghetto...
In terms of social life and futur marital life, am feeling like I won't find the One here...Many muslim arabs living in France don't know anything about their religion...they are even lost in their identity and actually dont know what they are looking for...
Muslim guyz would say they're looking for a serious relationship in a islamic way but their mask fall down as quicker as their hormones call them... they would say that marriage is so sacred and to make the good choice they have to live with the girl before marrying her to be sure she is the right one...
We don't have the freedom of religion in France and God knows how evil is becoming the society...couples are breaking every second (temptations are too much for guyz and women can't satisfy their husband), individualism is more and more prevailing, homosexuality is becoming the norm, drinking is fashion, islamophobia is normal, homophobia is a crime and so on and so forth...
Looking forward to your replies guyz!
In fact, I came to you to share experiences concerning different countries you've lived in and if actually you are confused about where to choose to settle down! I am torched between the North and the South if I may describe it this way! I am born in France and lived there for almost half of my life and I lived in an arab country the other half! I left it cuz it was becoming unbearable there (not that I hate the country) but the mentality there is hard to cope with (too much intrusion in one's life, contradictions between traditions and religion, very frequent snobbish attitude, etc...).
I came back to France 2 years ago and I am so dissapointed. Most people are allergic to cultural differences and don't try to get out of their french cocoon! French are so chauvinist and negatively perceive any arab and this doesn't help me in term of professional career, I am constantly stereotyped as the typical arab coming from the 93 ghetto...
In terms of social life and futur marital life, am feeling like I won't find the One here...Many muslim arabs living in France don't know anything about their religion...they are even lost in their identity and actually dont know what they are looking for...
Muslim guyz would say they're looking for a serious relationship in a islamic way but their mask fall down as quicker as their hormones call them... they would say that marriage is so sacred and to make the good choice they have to live with the girl before marrying her to be sure she is the right one...
We don't have the freedom of religion in France and God knows how evil is becoming the society...couples are breaking every second (temptations are too much for guyz and women can't satisfy their husband), individualism is more and more prevailing, homosexuality is becoming the norm, drinking is fashion, islamophobia is normal, homophobia is a crime and so on and so forth...
Looking forward to your replies guyz!